What is the meaning of happiness for you?

People come up here with different tracks, different viewpoints and different issues with various statements like “He never understands me”, “He reacts so unpredictably”, and with experiences like,” I know things will never go right”. “There is always a new negative incidence that crops in whenever I go ahead and try to resolve the issue and again we land up fighting or arguing”.“I cannot live with him but I know I love him”, “I cannot forget the things of past, I am hurt, how should I be doing that?”, “How should I be happy, by forgetting the past and looking forward to the future?”

But here one thing is common everywhere and that is they all want peace, harmony and prosperity in their personal and relationship dimension, they all want their marriage to work and have the willingness to change for the sake of their marriage.

The answers are simply put in these questions:

-          What is the meaning of peace for you?

-          What is the meaning of happiness for you?

There is no word called “PERFECT” and anything and everything that happens is perfect. Things happen for a reason and our role here is to try to find out the reasons and work towards them.

So, let’s work towards them step by step.

Firstly, if you love him, all the efforts are worth it. There’s always a neutral way out towards a particular conflict/clash and here at “THE COUNSELLING INSTITUTE", we learn to do that. Do what you are supposed to do and accept gladly the consequences and try to figure out your cravings and aversions in regard to that particular situation, as a result in this journey you will find “ME” (the real you).

 This article written by MANASVANI. Manasvani is a psychologist and a consultant with TCI since 4 years. She has done her Masters in Psychology. She has keen interest in the field of counseling, both personal and relationship. Her work revolves around creating an understanding of self in all areas of life and helping individuals enrich their lives. She is a strong advocate of the belief that individuals should work to reach closer to self-actualization.